At the end of your Rope?

“I surrender all”, “lRopeeave it at the foot of the cross”, “let go, and let God.” Raise your hand if you have ever heard of these phrases, said any of them or more importantly have attempted any of these. I think I see a lot of hands! Here is another question. How many of you have actually successfully executed any of these in your life at any given point? I am sure that there are some of you who have but as for myself I have to admit that it is one thing to say it and entirely another to do it! But it is possible!

I had the awesome opportunity to experience this at one point in the past, and it occurred when I was at the end of my rope. Another familiar phrase, we have all heard it and been there. According to the Urban Dictionary the phrase means “to be out of options or alternative courses of action; to be stuck in a bad situation.” A ‘rope’ is thrown to someone who is in a difficult place, such as deep water or the edge of a cliff. If there is not enough rope, the person might be in trouble. So to be ‘at the end of your rope’ means that there is no more help available, and the situation is not good. You would think it would be an easy moment for us? For us as Believers to realize that our only option is to to surrender, turn to Jesus and trust Him. BUT we don’t do we? We try to fix things, we worry, we pray, but it can be an eternity from “surrender” to peace and rest.

But He gives a greater grace. Therefore it says, “GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE. Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” (James 4:6-7)

It seems to me that surrender is much like submission. And quite frankly, the reason we don’t fully surrender is tied to our sinful nature. When we fail to fully surrender we are being motivated by things that are contrary to the Spirit.

  • Pride: ” I can do it…I don’t want or need anyone’s help…I have to fix it!”
  • Worry: I prayed about but I still feel anxious about the situation
  • Control:  Trying to make the situation or issue confirm to my wants and desires.

We may not even fully realize these heart motivations are being played out in our circumstance or situation. But they are real and will not only delay our inner conflict but in some cases will make our issue much worse.

A lesson from Mary and Martha.

38 Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village ; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home. 39 She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord’s feet, listening to His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with all her preparations ; and she came up to Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone ? Then tell her to help me.” 41 But the Lord answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things ; 42 but only one thing is necessary, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”

Now your situation may seem or be much greater than Martha’s dilemma but the principle is the same. Martha was likely frustrated, upset and wanted Mary help her.  There was likely pride, worry, and control at play here. But what was Jesus answer in that situation? We need to draw near the Lord, surrender, and trust Him.

Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners ; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. (James 4:8 )

Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you. (James 4:10)


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